Its Miracles LifeStyle by Miracle Hines: Cosmopolitan magazine

Well, well,well! It's officially FALL!
( okay, not technically yet) but you get my point. September is usually the time when all the summer hype dies down, and if not everybody including your parents, are in a cozy relatioship... Meanwhile the rest of us are how you put it.. um yeah totally, completely, 100% SINGLE. Nothing feels more out of place than going to gathering as the single one.

Goodness sakes, September truly snuck up on me out of nowhere, and I know i'm not the only one who feels this way and it makes it no better when Fall Festivals are coming arounnd the corner and you're just out here wondering

" How did I get here" while looking at these cheerful happy couples coming out Lenox Mall. The only thing the soothes seeing this minute is hot apple cider samples

Here is how I think single people who worked hard this year, but forgot to mingle should handle being single. First just chill! We have 3 months left to a New Year, so you can look at anybody you want. But don't just look, shoot your shot! We're all adults here and nothing says Adult, than going after a person you like or is interested in. DM, tell your friend to give you the hook up. Anything.

Next is don't wallow in your misery! Don't think about how much you've worked and forgot to secure a relationship, these things usually happen when you lease expect it to, or when you're ready. When you dewell on your sadness no goodness can come. So girl perk yourself up darnit! Wherever you're going this month dress up, go out with your friends to brunch or the dinner. Have some fun for yourself girl!

Last but not least. Love yourself! Sure it would be great to be in a relationship right now, going to the pumpkin patch, or fall festivals, but you know what... that's okay, because you're breathing and have your great group of friends and family that loves you. But most of all You love you! I think before anyone seeks companionship in another person that they should focus on themselves first, set some R&R time for you and your girls, change up your style, go out to a football games do something that makes you happy. Great things comes to one who knows how to live their best for themselves and nobody else.

Peace and pumpkin spice lattes

Miracle.

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What do you want?

What do I want?

Simple question, but such vast answers. I could go to the grocery store and know exactly what to get and get there, but pick up 4 more items that I clearly wasn't there for but didn't know I needed them til I got there.

Thats what it feels like when someone ask the question

"what do you want in a person?"

Truhfully speaking its a no brainer! But problem is how do we know if what we want is enough? Honestly, the image of the person we know is something we are striving to get, but when we get that person what happens if we're missing the points, or what if the person that we want ends up being half of the features you want, but the plus side is you're getting something you didn't look for? Would that be a absolutely no pass on go for you,or would you give it a chance to let that person evolve and maybe watch it flow?

The saying goes "You must know what you want to get what you want!"

But maybe there is a complex to that, you can know exactly what you want until you pass by the thing that you need....

In this era that we're in, most are seeking out someone with materialistic avenues and that is it. Yes we want someone who can be stable if things arise, but why can't more people start to want some who also has a understanding heart? or someone that has family values, or a person who's spiritually grounded? Most importantly a person that will love you at your best and your worst.

Don't let the clout of this insta world shade you into thinking only about the pictures and not the life behind them. Chasing the materialistic life will only get below ground zero, so before you say what you want, make sure you gather up your present with your future. I see more women going for the impulse guy who will pass them up when they are done with them like they're recycle bottles because what he appears to be, and look pass the passionate guy who has the qaulities thats truly obvious what they're in need of and more, but will pass him by because he doesn'thave the look or edge they want.

I am only saying, know just exactly what you want in who you want and also be sure to know yourself truly and honestly, because each year, slowly, but quickly we ourselves change as we progress within the person we're becoming so just know that what you want is something that you'll be happy with .

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Ola readers! Ever seen on twitter or instagram, someone taking about "Savage" or its "savage Season"? To many times I've read this saying used best in the terms of being heartless to the point where you're going to be cold but look good while doing, meanwhile expecting love from a distance because you are a savage. My conclusion is, being a savage only applies to sports and the guys killing it on the court or on the field, but being a savage female because you like the word and think it's cute until you're alone..eh yeah thats really gotta stop. Savages gets no love and I think it's time to drop that whole "I'm tough, I don't need you or anybody for that matter". Like it or not, that attitude is masked hurt and many people can see that blocks away, you know what... What is the big deal of a woman wanting to be loved or inlove is seen as being too much? why must the savage title be adored? Women shouldn't be ashamed of wanting to be in love or to have that feeling because of this stigma that we want guys to like us but we should appear to be hard for them to be interested so lets pick that "Savage" aura and let that kite fly like a bird... hoping to catch something and making a good guy work hard to discover that you're actually a soft female..

Girl please..

We already have the resting mug face now the word savage is added to our list of things thats not needed, where in the history of the life has a woman used the word savage, acted like one and ended up with a happy relationship? Victoria Beckham or Michelle Obama? Nope. Those women carry themselves with their truth, they are women who show their feminine side, found good men to spend their life with and to top it off they're strong business women. Look what im saying is women should just own up to the fact that No we are not Emotionless, Yes we crave the right kind of love, No we don't walk around being sarcastic dolls for men amusement because "It's cute" Look it's not cute to appear to not care for guys that you find interesting and playing the YoYo games, when in fact you care even if they liked you post... You can't want love on the inside, but on your out you shame it because you like the attention of not caring. You're only hurting the vast chances of finding a good person to be happy with. If you want love accept it, if not those Savage ways will be your extremely 10 foot high gate to stop whats meant for you..

No Love For Savages.

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Hey Readers! Haven't checked in what seems like forever; but I promise nothing has changed about me only my age (haha). I recently just turned 25, and so I've been doing some thinking about my Life, Goals and future Career the basics. Even though I'm not fully where I wish to be right-now I'm still in a good position, but now more than ever I just wish that I felt more fuller and by that I mean gain weight. Gaining weight is mainly half of my personal goals that I listed for myself that I set pretty much every year. For most of my life I've weight the same! No fluke guys I mean like I truly stayed at 98 for years. I have the biggest high metabolism which causes me to literally burn though weight like boiled water on the stove, so yeah it's real. The best breakthrough with gaining weight was last year out of nowhere I picked up weight and went to 103 without knowing and next thing I knew it vanished like poof. This quick metabolism is hilarious. Even though people tell me "You should be lucky!" or "I wish I had that" Uh ya sure? and the popular saying "you'll gain just eat more". Like I don't 5 times my serving of meat and cake? Cmon Son.. I can eat the whole refrigerator and only see 2 pounds. At 25 personally, in my head I had this goal set to be a different number... . I guess I'm just so tired of being the "tiny" one. Sick of being seen as a Kid, or a middle schooler, when actually I'm an adult!! Reality is My body needs a change. This is How I feel Right now. Any girl/ young woman that is going through this quick metabolism life knows exactly what I'm feeling, it's a challenge by far to gain weight, nobody can fully understand it but the person that is in and knowing that I can speak about it in a way of release without any sting of emotion is a largely funny situation & it feels good. FYI There Is not a hint of sadness while I'm writing this at all, so if you're reading thinking I'm writing this as a petty party starter think again! (Smiles) I've been tiny all most of my life, so now I'm like "Body do your thing lets get it together boo! Succeed and thrive baby" (laughs) But you know I do thank God that I'm perfectly healthy, I'm naturally thin and my body isn't sick or rejecting food, It's working fine, I'm mentally strong and great! I'm strong in all areas, I'm happy, personally I crave this body change for myself and only for myself. I call this awaking Body peace: and this peace is something that I've had with myself for years,knowing and understanding how my body works, knowing how naturally thin I am and being being at peace with that also knowing nothing is horrifically wrong just food for me takes time to show up. Real talk you'd be surprised how many others are dealing with this and they don't have peace within themselves and they driven themselves crazy over it. Weight gain for me It's a process that I have to trust, am I trusting but you know how people workout to a better them I want a better me pass 98 pounds. Growing up I now know the meaning of "I just want this for myself". Being a Stylist, I can wear clothing that accentuates my good fit tiny body and I look perfectly fine, but It's just weird that the lady at the food sample table in Publix ask to see my mother because she doesn't want to give a food tester to me because I could be allergic, and I need parental supervision! A 25 year old needs parental guidance to try food. The pure disrespect. (laughs) Situations happen like that all the time to me. Really Can I at least go to a size 3. Continuing on.. don't mistake my venting for not loving my body because I completely Love my body, God did a great job, but I just want some extra features the natural way and personally it's been eating at me just more than usual. No I'm not insecure at all trust me I'm the most confident person you'll ever meet 5'0 ft and all. I am embracing my body for what it is, but why should I keep myself to a period, when I can push it to a comma? You see what I mean?! (laughs) No I'm not defined by a scale number, or what a person view me as a child because what I am appearing by size to be, but I just want to feel whole and not so light. I can careless about what other woman look like in magazines or television, or instagram, like that stuff is falsified garbage. This is me just wanting to feel good for me. Really When I get into a relationship with my future boyfriend I don't want to look like little girl, hello I am a woman! A grown woman I want to not only feel like it mentally on the inside, but I truly want look like it. That's all I want. Readers If you have the same Issue that I am dealing let me know! Comment and tell me.

Remember, Miracle Loves You.

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Hey Readers, wow it's 2017 already. Can't say I will miss 2016 it was an alright year, I must admit something I could've done, but didn't. Hey it's life! But this new year, 2017, a new 365 days to prove to myself what I'm really made of, Like I got the guts okay, so let me prove it. I feel like I will definitely rise up to my biggest standard yet. So my goals for 2017 is just honestly be more Realer than anything! Lets face it sometimes we can water down our dreams, our goals, and whatever else we want to not scare ourselves into thinking the things we want is out of our reach, or the work won't be that much. The Checkpoint is... what we want is bigger and yes it's shocking, but you know what? That is the glorious beauty of it all! Our dreams are suppose to scare us, it's suppose to shock us into the reality of "you better do it" Because God doesn't give us dreams and goals in us all just so we can slide by it. coming to the realization I've been sliding by a but too long and that will not be accepted from me no more. 2017 I will be harder on myself and go directly for my highest Goal and no I don't care how crazy it may seem, or if the steps are too long to get there I'm going to get there. My top point to get on this year is to be more open to every opportunity(The right ones). You never know what doors will be that special one and personally I think 3 times before I actually agree yes to anything! Seriously! I must learn to not stall myself for weeks into doing something that actually takes what.. a quick 5 minutes to do and that has to be the dumbest thing ever, but this year I don't have the time anymore to hold myself back from anything. So yeah, no more of all that ignorance of holding myself back.

Since I am spilling this out to you all..it feels good. Inwardly I can feel a change and it's a good one, like you know the change a person feels when they're about to start a new page and it's so amazing! Yeah I feel that. Do Videos of style and beauty..for real this time! You know what I love to do this year is to collaborate with other Stylist! Learn their tips and trades, this business is so big why not! "The more a person knows, the farther they'll grow and go" Also Collaborate with skincare brands, clothing brands and hair brands, I'm just putting this out into the atmosphere, I've learn at a young age to "Speak the things you want into Existence" Next is to be more adventurous! No not the type to rock climb, or none of that! Adventurous in Style! As a Stylist I don't want to limit myself at all! I want to evolve, I want to grow! So I will try a new wave with a twist. I love to dress in black, but I love color and with that I would love to somehow style a line of clothing with that type of vibe.. maybe this year I would start a line. All this year I want to be so busy that my only transportation is a Plane and my pit stop is a hotel and a showroom. How can I forget, I have to catch myself football games! Readers if you're wondering my teams are Patriots(Huge Pats fan!),Giants,Cowboys, Packers, and Broncos. Theme of this year is "Work Hard, Play Hard" Hey it's a new drive and to be real honest I know I can pull it off. Oh yes my ending goal is to go to concerts and have girl trips to places with palm trees and the best fruit punch! I know you guys are laughing at me, but it's the Florida in me! I need the sun and seas.

Thanks for reading my mini letter and yes you'll read more soon!

Remember Miracle Loves You!