Well, well,well! It's officially FALL!
( okay, not technically yet) but you get my point. September is usually the time when all the summer hype dies down, and if not everybody including your parents, are in a cozy relatioship... Meanwhile the rest of us are how you put it.. um yeah totally, completely, 100% SINGLE. Nothing feels more out of place than going to gathering as the single one.
( okay, not technically yet) but you get my point. September is usually the time when all the summer hype dies down, and if not everybody including your parents, are in a cozy relatioship... Meanwhile the rest of us are how you put it.. um yeah totally, completely, 100% SINGLE. Nothing feels more out of place than going to gathering as the single one.
Goodness sakes, September truly snuck up on me out of nowhere, and I know i'm not the only one who feels this way and it makes it no better when Fall Festivals are coming arounnd the corner and you're just out here wondering
" How did I get here" while looking at these cheerful happy couples coming out Lenox Mall. The only thing the soothes seeing this minute is hot apple cider samples
Here is how I think single people who worked hard this year, but forgot to mingle should handle being single. First just chill! We have 3 months left to a New Year, so you can look at anybody you want. But don't just look, shoot your shot! We're all adults here and nothing says Adult, than going after a person you like or is interested in. DM, tell your friend to give you the hook up. Anything.
Next is don't wallow in your misery! Don't think about how much you've worked and forgot to secure a relationship, these things usually happen when you lease expect it to, or when you're ready. When you dewell on your sadness no goodness can come. So girl perk yourself up darnit! Wherever you're going this month dress up, go out with your friends to brunch or the dinner. Have some fun for yourself girl!
Last but not least. Love yourself! Sure it would be great to be in a relationship right now, going to the pumpkin patch, or fall festivals, but you know what... that's okay, because you're breathing and have your great group of friends and family that loves you. But most of all You love you! I think before anyone seeks companionship in another person that they should focus on themselves first, set some R&R time for you and your girls, change up your style, go out to a football games do something that makes you happy. Great things comes to one who knows how to live their best for themselves and nobody else.
Peace and pumpkin spice lattes
Miracle.
